My toddler is copying everything - isn’t this an autistic thing?

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No, a toddler copying everything you do does not necessarily mean they are autistic. Imitation and copying behaviour are common in typically developing children, especially during the early stages of language and social development. Children often observe and imitate their caregivers as a way to learn about the world and acquire new skills. 

Imitation is an essential aspect of early childhood development and is seen as a positive sign of social engagement, learning, and communication. Toddlers tend to mimic their parents, siblings, and peers as they learn language, gestures, and social behaviours. 

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental condition characterized by challenges in social communication and interaction, repetitive behaviours, and restricted interests. While imitation and copying behaviour are part of normal development, some children with autism may display differences in how they imitate or engage in social interactions. 

It's important to remember that autism is a complex and diverse condition, and the presence of imitation alone does not indicate autism. Many other factors contribute to the diagnosis of autism, and professionals use comprehensive assessments to evaluate a child's development and determine if they meet the criteria for ASD. 

If you have concerns about your child's development or behaviour, including possible signs of autism, it's a good idea to consult with a paediatrician or a developmental specialist. They can provide a thorough evaluation and offer guidance on appropriate interventions or support if needed. Early intervention and support are crucial for children's optimal development, regardless of whether they have autism or other developmental differences. 

Authors: Stephanie Mace, Brodi Killen, and Samantha Pearce

Educational and Developmental Psychologists - With You Allied Health Directors